Friends!

“Friendship doubles our joy and divides our grief.”
- Sweedish proverb

I found a friend, maybe two. This is the fifth time in my life when I have needed to make new friends, and one of the hardest. In preschool, I just asked Lauren if she wanted to be my friend, she said okay, and that was it -- best friends for 16 years.
In kindergarten, I think my teacher was my best friend. I cried my eyes out on our kindergarten graduation day (foreshadowing perhaps?) because I didn't want to leave her. In fourth grade, when I moved, I was lucky enough to be handed a best friend -- Sarah, another shy girl, in my grade, in my class, who lived down the road, and had also just moved to Galway, who I met at oreintation and we've been friends ever since. Then I had the same friends for the next 8 years. Some new ones along the way, and some left behind, but the same core group; I'm sure we'll always be close. Which was why making new friends in college seemed so unappealing. Why would I want to make new friends? I already had best friends. And then, again, a best friend was put in my lap. Well, not quite my lap, but in my 10x10 college dorm room, so yea, essentially in my lap. Not only was Kelly the best freshman year roommate anyone could ask for, she introduced me to some of my best friends at college. The rest of my best friends came from the decision to join the Literary Arts Society and snap my fingers on Wednesday nights. So I made a whole new group of life-long friends (if you're catching on... I tend to keep friends around for a while)... And all of this time, I've had my sister as a built-in best friend.
And now, I'm here, in a foreign country, in the hardest friend-making situation I've been in yet. I'm here with a group of four guys, zero girls. Which is why, when I met Petra and Isabel, it truly made my day. I overheard them speaking in accents (not Australian or American) at the bus stop near my road on Tuesday morning on the way to work. Something made me think, "Hmm... I should talk to them!" So I casually butted into their conversation and asked if they were studying at Uni here. It turns out they are foreign students, from the Czech Republic and Spain, and are here for an intensive language course to learn English. They are staying in a homestay together, on my road, with other foreign students! We talked the entire way to our stop and exchanged numbers; after talking to them this week, I'm going to hang out with them on Saturday and got to the infamous Mardi Gras parade with them! Who knows if we'll end up being close friends, but at least I know I have the capability of making friends. I almost felt like I was back in nursery school again, and simply asking someone to be my friend. It really should be that simple...

Quintessential Sydney

After collecting the chickens' eggs and trying to figure out my schedule for next semester (which I have no idea how to approach), I started getting ready for my Opera House day. Michelle's mom stopped by to make sure everything was going okay, which was lucky for me, because I need a little help squeezing into my dress. I hopped on the bus into the city, and leisurely made my way down to Circular Quay and the Opera House. I had left myself plenty of extra time, so I decided to meander through the Botanical Gardens, spotting beautiful flowers, at least 4 wedding parties, and the Opera House, peeking through some trees.

I then toured the symphony hall and opera theater (which is actually the small one). The tour was very interesting, and we actually got to take pictures in the symphony hall (only after the musician had left the stage - they are very strict about that).

After the tour, I grabbed a bite to eat at the Opera Bar (spaghetti with prawns (they don't call them shrimp here) and strawberry cheesecake), and then went back to the opera theater to see The Magic Flute.

I wasn't sure where my seat would be, but I ended up being in the first row of the balcony and had an excellent view. The opera was by Mozart, sung in German (with surtitles, above the stage), spoken in English. The music, acting, singing, staging and sets were all fantastic. Afterward, I grabbed a gelato for the train and bus ride home. Tomorrow I can't decide if I want to try to do the zoo, or just errands and getting organized for the week. I will have the internship Mon. - Wed. again (picture of my office below), and I am going to see A Midsummer Night's Dream at the symphony hall on Monday night!

Thank God I'm a Country Girl?

So my host family is away this weekend on their parents' farm, and I needed to stay home to do my online class posting. So I am in charge of the house, which includes the animals. There is a cat, a budgie (bird), four chickens, 2? adult crayfish, many baby crayfish, goldfish, and a whole bunch of stick bugs (some of these pictured below with the kids, courtesy of my host mom's Facebook).Tonight, I had to find the cat that was missing all day (hiding on a seat at the kitchen table), feed it, feed the crayfish and goldfish, and get the chickens back into their hutch. Which, by the way, was impossible. They were perched on the laundry drying rack outside, and would not get down. At first I just tried clucking at them and running away, hoping they would follow me, like a dog. No luck. Then I tried picking them up, or scootching them off, both to no avail. They would just flap their wings and scare me half to death, so that I'd let go and they'd stay right where they wanted to be. I finally got one of them off, and another one followed, but getting them into their hutch was a whole other story. I practically had to chase them in. Finally, I got all three of them safely in the hutch and called Michelle to tell her, and she said, oh, well there are 4 chickens, not 3! Luckily for me, when I went out to check on the 4th, he had gone into the hutch all on his own... What an adventure...
On another note, my internship at FilmInk magazine started on Monday, and as soon as I finished the tour, I got started working! They had me watch a French film (English subtitles), transcribe an interview that Dov (the publisher) had done with the lead actor and then write a profile on the actor. I did the same thing the next day with a different film, an American one this time (Sex Drive with Josh Zuckerman). On Wednesday, they had me watch a documentary-type movie, American Teen, which followed 5 high school seniors for the entire school year, and write a DVD review, which I felt kind of unqualified to do, as I don't really know very much about film, but I think I did an okay job of fudging my way through. It's a really small staff, so I think I will be getting to do a lot, which is great. I'll let you know when my articles are online!
The one bad part of the internship is that it is in Bondi, which is a little over an hour away, by bus, train, and then bus. I have to wake up around 6:45 to get there on time and don't get home until after 6. It makes for a really long day, and I am usually exaughsted when I get back home. Welcome to the real world, I guess!
Thursday we had class with the pop/rock star again, and I got my ID card (with a free jump drive!) and my travel stipend, which is really exciting. Class went well, and then we raced (figuratively... realistically it was a half hour bus ride -- we got stuck on the bus that seemed to stop at every house) home to get ready to meet up with Paddy, a 19-year-old Australian bartender that the boys at met at their local hangout, who was going to take us out and introduce us to some of his friends. We got ready, Tyler's host mom miraculously gave us a ride to Steve's (saving us a mile and a half walk, at least) and Paddy picked us up. He was a really nice guy, and is actually going to be headed back to America this summer to travel and work at a sumer camp in Maine, which he did last year too. We got to the club where his friends were, and we couldn't get in because we didn't have our passports on us. So disappointing. We decided to go to The Greenwood Hotel, where we tried to go last week, but the line was too long.We got in this time, and it ended up being pretty fun, lots of dancing. Today I just had a lazy day. Tomorrow I am either going to go to the beach or the zoo, and then the opera at night to see The Magic Flute!

Bondi Beach in the Sun with No Frenchmen

I love that it's summer here. All the flowers are blooming, people are mowing their lawns, it even smells like summer. This is one of the flowers in my front yard after the rain.


The boys and I went to Bondi Beach on Sunday. It was a beautiful day, and I only got a little sunburned!

I'll add more text later... making the trek to the boys now...

Class with a pop/rock musician

The past few days weren't quite as eventful as the first few. We had class Wed. - Fri. from 9:30 - 4:30. The first day I missed the bus and was late, but our teacher, Jillian, was really nice and didn't seem to care. She taught us about Australian government and politics, and then took us into Sydney to Macquarie Street see the oldest post office, the Parliament House, a huge bank (where we got to see the faults underneath -- looked just like the movies!), and others. The buildings were really beautiful and I might try to go back to get some pictures. We had lunch in the building where the supreme court meets, and saw the judges, wigs and black robes and all! The view from the top of the building was fantastic, which normally would mean the food would be really expensive, but it was very reasonable.
Thursday and Friday we had a different teacher, Mandy, who turned out to be a pop/rock musician who is pretty famous in Australia. She has preformed in the Opera House multiple times, went to acting school with Hugh Jackman, and is friends with Russell Crowe's wife! She was a great teacher, and we learned more than we could ever want to know about Australia. From talking to her, I decided I might want to try to go visit Tasmania, maybe toward the end of my trip, because the views are fantastic, and you can go skiing there. I definitely want to go to Melbourne as well. She gave us some great tips about travelling and living in Australia.
We tried (unsuccessfully) to go to the Greenwood Hotel (hotel means bar here), and I wrecked my feet by trying to wear heels... at least 2 blisters, and really sore feet :-(. Last night I watched a rugby game with my host family. The rules are a little hard to understand, but it was really intense.
I had planned on going to Bondi Beach today, but awoke to clouds and rain, again. I might go to see A Midsummer Night's Dream tonight, preformed outside, with views of the harbor (I think). Then tomorrow will be the beach, and then TropFest, the largest short film festival in the world. My internship starts on Monday! Off to get some work done for my online class...

Braving the city

After waking up to another cloudy day, I decided to change my plans from the zoo to the aquarium. The boys were out too late last night (too early this morning, actually) to go with me, so I ventured off by myself (with some flower-picture-taking on the way, of course).

On the bus ride, I noticed that even the youngest children have learned the art of gaze-avoidance when there are off-kilter passengers riding near them. The aquarium was alright, but nothing too exciting, and I blew through it in about an hour, and had scheduled 4.

I was then left, without a plan (huge gasp), and with 3 hours to kill. I decided to take my time and explore Cockle Bay and Darling Harbor. I walked along the boardwalk (? I'm not sure if they call it that here, did some people-watching, and tried to decide if I wanted to eat at one of the many overpriced restaurants. I opted for some gelato instead. The flavor choices were endless, and I ended up deciding on green tea flavored. Poor choice. After only eating toast with nutella on it all day, the green tea gelato made my stomach feel a little queasy. Better luck next time.

I then ventured over to the Chinese Garden of Friendship, but decided to save it for a sunnier day, and maybe when I have someone with me to enjoy it. I made my way over to Chinatown and decided to grab a bit to eat. I got pan-fried beef dumplings, which were excellent. I opted to use a fork, though.

By this point, I still had more than an hour to kill, and was starting to consider winging it in the search for a bus home (I had plotted out my route on this great website where you put in your address and destination and it gives you maps and directions for which buses/trains to take and plans a return route for you. However, the route changes based upon what time it is, so I wanted to stay on schedule). I headed for my bus stop to see when the next train to North Sydney would be, and on the way, stumbled upon my favorite building so far: The Queen Victoria Building (or as the locals say, the QVB).

It had beautiful architecture, complete with stained glass windows and old fashioned elevators. Inside were hundreds of shops, restaurants, and cafes. While the majority of the stores were way above my price range, they were fun to explore, and I definitely want to go back there again. I ended up buying the brown Tevas I passed up in the states, because my flip flops the other day just weren't cutting it -- my ankles felt about ready to break. Turns out it was a good idea to wait until I got here to buy them; they were at least $20 cheaper! I slightly haphazerdly caught the train back into the city, in the pouring rain, and ended up on the perfect one, to take me right back to Edinburgh Road, right near my house.
Here's a picture of my house:

I finished off the night with dinner and TV with the host family. Tomorrow, Thursday and Friday we have our culture class at the school, which means leaving the house at 8:38 a.m. (according to my handy trip planner website). I will be fitting in a phone-date with Tonya at 8 a.m. so it will be an early morning for me...

Bondi Beach in the Rain with Frenchmen

It was finally sunny today when I woke up, so I decided to venture to the famous Bondi Beach. My internship will be located near there and I wanted to be sure I would be able to find my way. I have to take a bus, a train, and then another bus; it will take me a little over an hour. While on the second bus, I started chatting with two guys that looked to be travelling together. They were from France, and had just arrived last week as well, but they were not travelling together; they had met at their hostel. One of them spoke very good English, and was looking to move to Australia and get a job; the other was a backpacker whose English wasn't quite as good. They, too, were headed to Bondi Beach, so when we disembarked, we decided to try to find our way together. We took a guess, and ended up choosing the wrong direction and ended up at Tamarama Beach, which is the beach just south of Bondi.
It was equally as beautiful, but there were no people on the beach, and it was quite a bit smaller than Bondi Beach. By this point (of course) it had started raining, and we asked some people how to get to Bondi. They pointed us in the right direction, and we ended up on a gorgeous path. The conversation with the Frenchmen was very intersesting, and I had to struggle to understand their accents (You'd be proud of me Julia, I'm getting much better!) As soon as we reached the top of the point, and Bondi was just around the corner, my camera died.

I will definitely be back though, so I wasn't too disappointed. After soaking in the views and looking for surfers, it started downpouring. We ran to find somewhere to get under cover, and found a surf club. Normally you have to have a membership in order to go there, but internationals can go for free. We sat for a while to wait out the storm, and then I parted ways with them in order to catch the bus back home in time for dinner. They kissed me on both cheeks, in the typical French manner, and as I walked away, I thought, "This is what study abroad is supposed to be like." I had just spontaneously spent the afternoon with two complete strangers, French-speaking no less, seen some beautiful views, gotten lost and had a fantastic time.
On the way home, I got "off-course" a bit (I decided that will be my new term for lost, as I have never been completely lost because there are always people around to ask directions of), but ultimately found the right bus to take from the city to Willoughby. Everytime I would see something familiar, I silently cheered for myself that I had found my way, and that I am starting to recognize places in my new city. When I stepped off the bus at my stop, I realized that my host dad, Matthew, had been on the same bus, and walked home with him.
For dinner tonight, we had "scraps," their term for leftovers, and now I will probably spend the rest of the night getting organized and reading. Being out in the sun/rain/wind all day has tuckered me out. I think I want to try to head to the Taronga Zoo tomorrow. Maybe one of the boys will decide to join me... If not, that's okay too... they would probably get impatient always having to stop so that I can take countless pictures! I am adding pictures to my previous posts if you want to check them out!

Where are you, sun?

I have not seen the sun in... I think a week... It has rained every single day we have been here, usually harder when we decide we want to go outside. Yesterday, we all met up at the mall and explored Chatswood a little. The escalators in the mall were more like moving walkways, like in airports, except on a slant. I rode the bus from the stop near my house, and there were the most adorable brother and sister. The little boy was about 1 1/2, and the girl was about 7, and she just kept making him laugh hysterically. The kids here are adorable.
Random fact: They put lemon juice on their pancakes!
I went back home for dinner (walking distance: 1.2 miles! I am so going to get in shape!), which was Thai food (Julia would be so proud -- I tried (and liked) everything!). Then I got ready to go out, but by that point, it was a torrential downpour (of course) and I had no interest in strutting around Sydney in heels (no flip flops allowed in most places) in the pouring rain (after walking 15 minutes to meet the boys), so I opted to just meet them at the closest house and hang out for a while. I slept super late this morning, and awoke to more rain. I made juice with the kids (some combination of apples, carrots, nectarines, mint, watermelon... I think that's it) and played some games with them. I finally set up my calling card, so I made some calls home today, and am now off to watch the Mummy 3 with the kids.